That’s not like The Hostess with the Mostess or The Cat in the Hat. The whole phrase is Throwing out the baby with the bath water.
Our society has made really major improvements in the last 40 or 50 years. The most obvious is the status, role, and opportunities for black people and that doesn’t require any elaboration other than a peek at the White House.
Another is the status of and opportunities for women. Back then if a woman wanted to work she pretty much had three choices: librarian, school teacher, or nurse, none of which paid well back then, and they were treated like indentured servants. In a lot of districts if a woman became pregnant she had to quit or stand down for the duration. Not too long before that a nurse had to have the highest morals and no husband. The morals part she could demonstrate by never going on a date in public.
Another sign that our society was a little short of paradise is evidenced by the comment a painter made to me one day in a New Orleans bar:
When I was younger some of us would pile into a car and go cruising around Tulane looking for queers to beat up.
That he no longer thought that was such a grand idea was evidenced by the fact that he used the anecdote to illustrate what a jerk he had been when younger, in a story about how much had changed.
That’s the bathwater part. That was some murky, polluted bathwater and our society is the better for it’s having been pitched out into the weed patch.
When you wash the baby, make it all clean and fresh-smelling, you want to discard the water but you don’t want to throw the baby out into the weed patch, too. And sometimes that happens.
The FCC has decided to change the design of its shirts after the original design, which was submitted by students and voted on by the freshman class, sparked outcry from members within the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community…
…The original design, which won out over five other entries, displayed an F. Scott Fitzgerald quote in the front — “I think of all Harvard men as sissies” — in bold white letters. The back of the long-sleeved, navy blue T-shirt said “WE AGREE” in capital letters, with “The Game 2009” scrawled in script underneath it.
[T]he gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community.
Whether or not one is gay, or homosexual, is pretty much a question of what you like to put, or have put, and where. I get that.
What I don’t get is how that’s a community. Nor do I get how this so-called community gets an absolute veto over what the student body at a college does, right down to dictating what they may or may not put on their shirt for The Big Game.
Another thing I don’t get. Upon occasion, during intimate moments, my girl might feel like doing a ride ‘em, cowgirl number and, so to speak, saddle up. And perhaps, keeping with the same motif, I might like to have a go at stallion mode. And we might find that such activity is what we really like and keeps sparks flying.
But we’re not, based on that, going to form a voting bloc.
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